Saturday, December 2, 2017

What I Learned From my First Moving-Back-Home Experience

From dorm to house and all the places in between

Originally published on May 30, 2016

I experienced a lot of new things freshman year, and the most significant one was definitely moving into a dorm and living there for most of the year. Whenever I would come home for break, I never quite settled into my room and usually just lived out of a suitcase or wore whatever I had left in my drawers. Things would just be left in a corner or on my desk to take care of later. Then came the end of the year. It was time to move out and suddenly I realized just how much stuff I owned and had managed to cram into the small dorm room.

The problem with that is somehow last summer when I cleaned my room for the last time I did not take into account all the things that would be coming back. Therefore, my closet is bursting, my floor is unseen, and I have been trapped in quite a mess since I came back. It’s better than it was a few days ago, but still needs a couple days’ work. This is a lesson to everyone: get rid of things you did not use at school before you come home! I am surprised at how much junk piled up in my rooms, both at school and at home, over the year. Your priorities shift, it seems, when faced with school tasks as opposed to the openness of summer.

Other things have been different, since I have been home for four days now. I am home alone a lot, since my parents work and my brothers are still in school, so I am in charge of my own schedule and have to make food – not dissimilar from a Saturday at school. But instead of feeling the stress of projects, I am currently sitting in my reading chair, looking out the window at the green maple trees, listening to my dog bark, and trying to ignore the mess of papers that surround me. I have a full kitchen to make food in, a dishwasher to wash dishes, and pets to take care of. Instead of everyone rushing off to classes after dinner, they go to sports; I sometimes forget my brothers are still in school and have activities and places to be while I have nothing pressing. My weekend activities now include visits to grandparents instead of the practice rooms.

There is something peaceful about being the only person in your immediate vicinity, instead of knowing you are on a campus with many, many people surrounding you. For an introvert like myself, these several days of being completely alone has been much-needed and comfortable. I don’t hear car alarms, sirens, or train whistles, just birds. No one is running through the halls underneath me. It is as though the busyness of school was left behind on campus and the peacefulness of summer and home took over.


The school year was fun, but I am glad to be home again. 

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