Saturday, December 2, 2017

The Feeling of Coming Home

When home isn't just the place where you grew up

Originally published on October 23, 2016

A couple Sunday’s ago, I walked up from my university to my high school, as I had done hundreds of times before. It was the same path, the same steep hills. I trekked across the front lawn and went in the main doors, turning right, down the steps. The quiet, the smell, even the sound of my feet on the stairs was so familiar. It was a little different, new posters and carpet and constant small renovations. But it was basically the same. I walked past my resolute senior year locker and into the music room. The instrument families posters and signed Cats poster were still on the front wall. I immediately caught eyes with fellow musicians I hadn’t seen in a long time and greeted them excitedly. I sat down in the same seat I had for 4 years and was handed a black folder full of music; several of these songs I had played before. Looking around, I found I knew most of the people there. I hadn’t had a chance to play any outside music since April and it felt good.

And I was home. Playing show tunes in my high school classroom with my Playhouse friends for a concert on my university stage. I was home. A welcome break from worrying about the speeches and history and playing band music. I was home. It was before midterms week, coming off of a long weekend filled with obligations and projects and meetings and not a lot of study time. And how did it end? Perfectly. Sight reading and revisiting tunes I haven’t played in years but automatically were coming back to me. Not playing a musical since April made me miss it more than I realize.

I came back for rehearsal despite having midterms the next day I needed to study for. After already studying for several hours, I needed a break. Music isn’t always a stress reliever, but in this case it was. It was a break from researching Netflix and studying organum and motets and playing Persichetti and Beethoven. There was rehearsal during Fall Break and I looked forward to it all day. Rehearsal on the day of the concert was with performers whose pictures I had looked at on the wall of the music room for years. (I was backing up Nick Adams singing Dancing Through Life, so I’m not apologizing for being a little excited). And then there was the actual performance, seeing people I knew in the audience, getting hugs from people I hadn’t seen since I graduated, sitting comfortably on a stage, and just taking it all in. We closed with the school song and I played music I thought I’d never play again.

I was home. It’s hard to describe how it felt if you haven’t felt this before. A merging of worlds that just seem to make sense. A collection of nostalgia and familiarity, empathy and joy, anticipation and excitement. How easy it was to slip back into old habits and feel like I never left, to forget my troubles and become lost in the music and the experience.


Home doesn’t have to be the place where you grew up. Home can be a collection of things or people or an experience. There will be a certain feeling of comfort and relaxation and overall pleasure associated with whatever it is. You will look forward to returning. You will just feel good. That’s how I felt about this experience; it made me feel good. This concert was exactly what I needed. 

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